Our Mission

Helping families heal from the loss of a child.

To directly assist families who have experienced the loss of a child and support established programs focused on bereavement and grief counseling.

Tatum’s Love Foundation is a 501(c)(3) organization founded by Ben & Emilee Blackburn in honor of their daughter, Tatum Lee Blackburn.

Together, with our angel, we will help hearts heal.

The Blackburn’s Story

Her heartbeat was always so strong, her kicks were always so strong, and our love for her from the moment we found out we were pregnant was stronger than we could have ever imagined.

Then, it all changed. From that point on, we fought for her with everything we had until March 3rd; the day we lost her. This was the worst day of our lives and there are days it still does not seem real.

The impact of her brief presence touched the hearts of our family, friends, and caregivers who came together to support us through this difficult time. As parents, the thought of not being with our beautiful baby girl was one we had never contemplated, but one we were faced with.

In her honor, we are choosing to give back to programs created to assist families in the most tragic of losses: that of a child. Along with supporting these programs, we are seeking to provide an avenue for families in similar situations to find comfort in helping others during their time of grief.

Our Board of Directors

Our board members steer the organization towards a sustainable future by adopting sound, ethical, and legal governance and financial management policies, as well as by making sure the nonprofit has adequate resources to advance its mission.


Resources for Families In Need

There are many unique and wonderful resources available for families who have experienced the loss of a child.  Some of which are listed below.

If you have any questions, feel free to Contact Us.

Upcoming Events

Ronald McDonald House Charities of Central Texas
Healing Hearts Program

Healing Hearts supports Central Texas families who tragically have loss children by providing burial assistance and bereavement support.
The bereavement support is conducted by a licensed counselor in Austin and Bryan/College Station, TX. Families participating in the support program are offered an engraved stone reflecting the child’s name which is placed in the memorial gardens at The Ronald McDonald House and St. Thomas Episcopal Church in College Station, TX.

Father’s For Hope

Proud fathers of loss who are committed to bringing awareness
to established programs that provide support to families who have lost
children. A Tatum’s Love Foundation group, they are dedicated
to making a difference in the lives of those who seek HOPE.

Mother’s For Hope

The Mothers for Hope group is for Mothers of loss;
a journey of which feels lonely, but doesn’t have to be.
Our goal is to shed light on our paths and inspire hope through support
and friendship while honoring the memory of our little ones.

Comprehensive Resource Page

We have many support resources available from website, books, blogs,
and we’re always adding more.

If you have a valuable resources, please reach out to us.



No longer here, never forgotten, their footprints remain…

As we walk thru this life with Tatum’s footprints forever etched in our path we believe it is she who is leading the way to new a direction and purpose.  We will never fully understand why we were chosen to live this life without her, but as we move forward our pride in being her parents shines brighter each day.

Please take a moment to read these stories of loss and remember that each new life no matter how fragile, or brief, forever changes the world.

If you have any questions, or would like to share your story, please do not hesitate to contact us.  It is our strength as community that will endure all and ensure our little ones will never be forgotten.

Lindsay and Justin Pollok…and the footprints of Ryan and Hannah Pollok
I’ll never understand why or how things happened the way they did for us.  After struggling to get pregnant I felt so blessed that we were having twins.  How wonderful it was that we were having a boy and a girl and wouldn’t have to try to get pregnant again!

Erik and Monica Velez…and the footprints of Andres Thiago Velez
There were lots of people around my hospital bed, nurses, doctors and more nurses … they wrapped the fetal monitor around my belly to search for the heartbeats. One was found right away, but the nurse was having difficulty finding the second… https://meourstory.wordpress.com/

Sebastian and Kaley Anzaldo…and the footprints of Annabelle Olive Anzaldo
I had never known that type of love before. Dang, it’s powerful, isn’t it Mamas? All of a sudden life isn’t about you anymore. You created something amazing and they’re living and all you want to do is just love them with all that you have…

Viviana and Mariel Baluja…and the footprints of Bruno Baluja
The day I was initially admitted after my water broke, the admitting doctor told us we could abort him or we could fight. We had opened up our lives to bring our son home and his heart was still beating so we fought…


Our Fundraising Event

Tee It Up for Tatum is an annual golf tournament to honor Tatum Lee Blackburn and benefit the Healing Hearts Program at the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Central Texas.  Held each year in March, to coincide with her birthday, this is our signature event filled with love, joy and happiness.

Our Venue

Twin Creeks Country Club, the first signature golf course in the Austin area to be designed by Masters Champion Fred Couples plays host to this wonderful event.  Located within a 760-acre community, Twin Creeks County Club is Austin’s Premier Private Club with a Championship Golf Course.

The People

The success of Tee It Up for Tatum is made possible by the love and support of a village.  A village comprised of family, friends and individuals who believe families that experience the loss of child should not have to do so alone.  A village that believes each new life no matter how fragile, or brief, forever changes the world.

To all of our sponsors; thank you for your generosity and support to make this event bigger than we would have ever imagined. Thank you to all of our family and friends for love, support and time in the months leading up to today as well as today. We could not have made this possible without you.


Contact Details

Tatum’s Love Foundation
1101 Brighton Bend Ln
Cedar Park, TX 78613


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